The Sexual Side of a Libra: 11 Things to Know About a Libra Man in Bed

Sex is different for everyone. Sex with two people will never be the same, but a person’s zodiac sign will influence how they perform in bed. 

So if you have a bit of a crush, or are in the early stages of a relationship, with a Libra, the information in this guide could be helpful!

Having an understanding of how the person you are with functions sexually can really improve the entire experience. It will also allow you to connect with your other half on a much more intimate level romantically. 

In this guide, we’re diving right into all the ins and outs of how a Libra man behaves in bed, looking at what is, and isn’t important to them. 

So, if you want to find out more about the sexual side of a Libra, keep on reading!

1. Sex is Important

Of all the signs of the zodiac, Libra is the sign that places the highest value on romantic relationships.

Love and romantic partnerships are hugely important to those born under the Libra zodiac, and sex is an important part of these relationships. 

For Libras, connecting with their partner on an intimate level is vital, and sex really is one of the best ways to get that deep romantic connection that they seek.

So, for Libra men in a relationship, sex will be pretty high up on their list of interests. 

If you are in a relationship with a Libra man, then you will quickly notice that sex really is a huge part of your relationship.

Most Libra men are intensely sexual, and this sex will be frequent in your relationship.

But for them, sex isn’t just about satisfaction, it is about achieving that deep connection that can only be had through this activity. 

2. It Isn’t Casual

Sex is important to Libras, this is something that we have already established.

Since the majority of Libra men are intensely sexual beings, it would be easy to assume that sex is a somewhat casual thing for those born under this Zodiac sign.

But that couldn’t be further from the truth. 

When a Libra man is in a relationship then sex will be a frequent activity. However, outside romantic relationships, sex is something that these men somewhat lose interest in.

For this reason, casual sex isn’t something that Libra men tend to be interested in, and that is because they crave the romantic connection that comes with sex. 

Of all the zodiac signs, Libra is the one that craves monogamy the most.

Libra men lack interest in casual sex because it only leaves them wanting more. They want a mate that they can trust and bond with on a romantic level, which is why casual sex with a Libra is uncommon. 

3. Environment is Key

If one thing is becoming obvious throughout this guide, it is that Libras are hopeless romantics at heart.

So it makes sense that environment is something that this star sign really cares about when it comes to sexual relationships.

As we will find out later, Libra men aren’t too adventurous when it comes to sex. They crave the security of a peaceful area for sexual relationships and enjoy a nice ambiance.

Libras are somewhat materialistic, so picture luxury, and that is what they want as an environment for sex.

Soft sheets, an open window, and the glow of low light – that is the perfect sexual environment by Libra’s standards. 

For this reason, spontaneous sex isn’t that attractive to a Libra man. He wants a private space with no interruptions and no need to rush. That is when a Libra man is most satisfied sexually. 

4. So is Communication

Both in and out of the bedroom, Libras really value communication. Communication is a key part of this zodiac sign, and it is something that Libra’s really crave when it comes to sex too.

In what can be a turn-off for some, Libras like to talk throughout sexual relations to ensure that everything goes as smoothly as possible. 

As we have said, Libras really value the intimate connection that sex allows them to have with their partner.

On the back of this, they want sex to be as enjoyable as possible for their partner, and this is something that they aim to achieve through communication. 

Don’t be surprised if your partner asks you questions throughout any sexual relations.

Libras are often more conscious about their partner enjoying themselves than them, so he will want to make sure he gets everything just right. 

When it comes to sex with a Libra man, it is important not to spring any surprises on him.

Be open about what you like, and what you don’t. This will allow your partner to ensure that you are sexually satisfied, and in turn, this will satisfy them too. 

5. They Aren’t Too Adventurous

Sex is something that is incredibly high value from a romantic perspective for Libras. It isn’t something that should be rushed or something that should simply be a quick thrill.

Sex is important and sacred, and for this very reason, Libras aren’t the most adventurous star sign in the bedroom. 

When it comes to sex, Libra men crave security. For this reason, they do tend to sway slightly towards the vanilla side of the vanilla-BDSM scale.

That is not to say that sex with a Libra man is boring. As we said at the start, sex is different for everyone, and you will find plenty of Libra men out there that are into slightly more adventurous sexual activities.

From light bondage to exhibitionism, there are Libras out there who are into adventurous sex.

But once they find something that they like, Libra men do tend to stick to the security of those sexual activities. 

That being said, Libra men are open to trying new things once if it is something that their partner is interested in.

Ultimately, making sure that their partner is satisfied is the most important part of sex for Libras, and if that means they need to try something new, then so be it.

6. They Like it to Last

For Libras, sex isn’t something that should be rushed. For them, sex isn’t simply a race to cross the finish line, instead, it is an activity that allows them to strengthen their bond with their partner.

The expression “slow and steady wins the race” really rings true when it comes to sex with a Libra. 

This need for sex to last is a big part of what prevents Libra men from enjoying spontaneous sex. Libras crave a deep romantic connection and this is something that can’t be achieved if the goal of the activities is immediate gratification. 

That doesn’t mean that Libra men are against a quickie now and then, but sex in this capacity isn’t that satisfying for them.

Typically, Libra men will want to dedicate at least one hour to sex, and if need be, it is something that they will schedule.

7. There Are Things They Like… 

Sexual preferences are unique to every single person. However, those born under the Libra zodiac do tend to have some common themes in their sexual preferences. Some of the main turn-ons for Libra men include:

Foreplay. Sex isn’t something that should be rushed, and Libra men really enjoy the build-up to sex. From kissing to getting naked, oral sex, and more, Libra men enjoy every single stage of sex from the early stages right through to the end.

His Partner’s Satisfaction. One of the biggest turn-ons for a Libra man is satisfying his partner. Seeing his partner enjoying it will help him enjoy the activity a lot more. 

Aesthetics. From an aesthetic point of view, Libras really enjoy sex when everything is picture-perfect. Attention to detail from clean sheets to sexy lingerie, and even the temperature of the room, are things that really allow a Libra man to enjoy the activity, and they act as a real turn-on. 

Synchronicity. A Libra man will get the most enjoyment out of sex when his partner and him are both in sync. When their relationship reaches a point where they understand each other on a sexual level without any need for communication, that is when a Libra man will get the most pleasure. 

8. And Things They Don’t

There are also a number of common things that act as turn-offs for men born under the Libra zodiac. They include:

Being Rushed. This has been a pretty common theme throughout this guide, but Libra men really struggle to enjoy sex when they feel rushed. They are happy to have spontaneous and quick sex from time to time if that is something that their partner wants. But ultimately, this is something that will not satisfy them. 

Profanity and Crude Behavior. Libras view sex as something that is incredibly personal to their relationship. So if their partner uses profanity or crudely speaks about their relationship in public, this is something that can be a real turn-off. 

9. They Are Happy to Initiate Sex

For Libra men, sex is something that should be openly communicated about within their relationship. For this very reason, Libra men tend to have no qualms about initiating sex with their partners. 

Libras place huge value on progressing their relationship, and this is typically something that is achieved through sexual relations. 

So, while they are never pushy or fierce in their attempts to initiate sex, it isn’t something that they have issues starting.

In a relationship with a Libra man, it will typically be him who initiates any sex that occurs. But on the odd occasion that you initiate relations, it is rare for a Libra man to pass up the opportunity. 

10. It is Good

If there is one thing that is for certain, it is that sex with a Libra man is good.

Those born under this star sign place huge value on sex within a relationship, and it is typically something that they are naturally good at. 

One of the biggest turn-ons for a Libra man is bringing his partner sexual satisfaction, and this can really enhance the whole experience.

Libra men are very attentive, and they pay huge attention to detail throughout the process, and this only makes it all the more enjoyable.

The main thing that makes Libra men so good in bed is the open communication that they push for in a relationship.

They know exactly what you like when it comes to sex, and so they always know how to please you. This only makes the experience more enjoyable for both parties. 

11. After Care is Important

Finally, it is important to remember that for a Libra man sex isn’t something that is over as soon as the deed is done. Aftercare is very important to Libra men, and in particular, they enjoy the opportunity to cuddle with their partner after sexual relations. 

Even in situations where there isn’t any time to cuddle, Libra men are still very attentive after sex.

They will always make sure that their partner is okay, and this really is the icing on the cake of an already enjoyable experience. 


So there we have it, 11 things that are incredibly important to know about Libra men in bed. If your partner is a Libra, you can use this information to improve your sex life and really deepen that romantic connection that Libras strive for.

Thanks for reading!

Zhara O’Brien
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